A wishes book is more than just a large greeting card; it’s a beautiful tapestry of memories, hopes, and affection woven together by the people who matter most. Whether it’s for a milestone birthday, a wedding, a retirement, or a farewell, being asked to contribute is an honor. It’s also a little daunting! How do you write something that is both personal and meaningful, something that will stand out and be cherished for years to come?
Don’t worry. The most important thing is to write from the heart. Your relationship with the recipient is unique, and your message should be a reflection of that. To help you find the right words, we’ve created a collection of ideas organized by theme. Use these as a starting point to craft a message that is authentically you.
Cherished Memories & Shared Moments
The best wishes are often rooted in the past. Recalling a specific, positive memory shows how much the person has impacted your life.
1. I’ll never forget the time we [mention a specific, fond memory]. It still makes me smile. Thinking of that day, I wish you a future filled with just as much laughter and joy.
2. My favorite memory with you has to be [e.g., that disastrous road trip that turned into an adventure]. It taught me that the best times aren't always the ones that go according to plan. Cheers to all your adventures to come!
3. Remember when we used to [mention a recurring activity]? Those moments are some of my most treasured. Thank you for being such a wonderful part of my story.
4. Looking back on all our years of friendship/working together, the memory of [mention a specific event] stands out. Your grace/humor/kindness in that moment was truly inspiring.
5. From late-night talks to celebrating big wins, thank you for all the moments we’ve shared. I can’t wait to see all the new memories you’ll make in this next chapter.
6. One of the funniest things I’ll ever remember is when you [share a lighthearted, funny memory]. Your ability to find humor in everything is a gift.
7. I was looking at an old photo of us from [year/event] the other day, and I just felt so grateful to have you in my life. Wishing you all the happiness in the world.
8. Thank you for being there for me during [mention a specific time]. That memory of your support and kindness is something I will carry with me forever.
Hopes & Dreams for Your Future
Look forward with optimism and encouragement. This is your chance to paint a picture of the wonderful future you see for them.
1. May your next chapter be filled with beautiful discoveries, joyful moments, and dreams that are even bigger than the ones you leave behind.
2. I wish you a future that is as bright and wonderful as the joy you bring to everyone around you. You deserve all the happiness in the world.
3. As you start this new journey, I hope you find adventure, peace, and everything you’re looking for. May your path be smooth and your heart be full.
4. Wishing you a lifetime of simple pleasures, grand adventures, and a love that deepens with every passing day. Congratulations!
5. May you always have the courage to chase your dreams, the strength to overcome any obstacle, and a community of people who love and support you every step of the way.
6. My greatest wish for you is that you continue to grow, to learn, and to find endless reasons to smile. The world is better with you in it.
7. Here’s to new beginnings! May they be filled with exciting challenges, fulfilling work, and friendships that last a lifetime.
8. I hope your future is a masterpiece painted with all your favorite colors. Go create something beautiful!
Celebrating You: Compliments & Qualities We Admire
Sometimes the most meaningful message is simply telling someone what makes them so special. Focus on their character and the positive effect they have on others.
1. I have always admired your incredible [e.g., resilience, optimism, creativity]. It’s a quality that inspires everyone lucky enough to know you.
2. Your kindness has a ripple effect that you might not even see. Thank you for making the world a gentler, more thoughtful place.
3. Your passion for [mention their hobby, cause, or work] is truly contagious. Don't ever lose that spark—it’s what makes you shine so brightly.
4. You have a rare ability to make everyone feel seen and valued. It’s a true gift, and one of the many things we love about you.
5. Watching you navigate life with such grace and integrity has been a privilege. You are a true role model.
6. Your sense of humor has gotten me through more tough days than I can count. Thank you for always bringing the laughter.
7. The world needs more people with your heart. Your compassion and generosity are truly remarkable.
8. What I admire most about you is your unwavering loyalty. To have you as a friend/colleague/family member is to know you always have someone in your corner.
Words of Wisdom & Gentle Advice
For milestone moments like a wedding, graduation, or retirement, offering a small piece of heartfelt advice can be a wonderful gift.
1. As you move forward, always remember to be as kind to yourself as you are to others. You are more than deserving of your own love and patience.
2. The secret to a happy life isn’t to have it all, but to cherish it all. Savor every moment of this beautiful journey ahead.
3. Never stop being curious. Ask questions, explore new paths, and stay open to wonder. It will keep your spirit forever young.
4. On your wedding day, remember this: A great marriage isn’t when the ‘perfect couple’ comes together. It’s when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.
5. For your retirement: The greatest work you’ll ever do is ahead of you—enjoying the life you’ve worked so hard to build.
6. Lean on your community when you need to, and celebrate every small victory. Life is a team sport.
7. Always trust your intuition. That quiet voice inside you knows the way.
8. Don’t forget to pause and look back at how far you’ve come. Be proud of your journey and all that you’ve accomplished.
Short, Sweet & Heartfelt Notes
You don’t need to write an essay to make an impact. A short, sincere message can be just as powerful.
1. So incredibly happy for you and this new chapter. Sending all my love!
2. Cheering you on today and always. You’ve got this!
3. Your happiness means the world to me. Congratulations on this amazing milestone.
4. To know you is to love you. Simple as that. Wishing you the absolute best.
5. Celebrating you today! Thank you for being you.
6. All my love and best wishes for everything that’s to come.
7. So proud of the person you are and all you’ve achieved.
8. Your future is so bright! Enjoy every single moment.
9. Just a little note to say you are loved so much.
10. Here’s to you and your incredible journey!
### Make It Your Own
These examples are here to spark your creativity, but the best message will always come from you. Pick an idea that resonates, then infuse it with your personality. Add a specific inside joke, mention a detail only you two would know, or simply sign off with a nickname. Your genuine voice is the most valuable gift you can add to any wishes book.